Reality show star Doyinsola Anuoluwapo David, also known as Doyin, has revealed the rationale behind her choice to forego becoming a full-time homemaker in the event of marriage
Her position stems from her fear that her spouse may change and no longer be able to support her and their kids, which makes her reluctant to become a stereotypical “housewife.”
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In a video message that she shared on Instagram, Doyin expressed her opinion that husbands are more likely to admire a woman who is financially independent than one who stays at home and takes care of the family.
She said, “I will never be a full-time housewife. Number one, people change. What if he [my future husband] changes? What if he meets another girl, and then he stops catering for me and my kids?
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“Number two, there’s this level of respect that comes with having your own money, like when your partner knows you can provide. You don’t need to ask them for everything. You can handle certain things in the house. And I would really like to have that respect in my marriage.
“And third, there are certain things that are out of our control. What if he dies? God forbid. We don’t pray for that, but what if he dies? How am I going to sustain myself and my kids? So, sustainability is a very big thing for me. At least, I would have a business.“